I’ve reflected on my experiences as a houseplant parent and how caring for my plants has taught me to care for myself.

I started creating my green sanctuary about five years ago. But in the last year I’ve been studying horticulture and my love affair with plants has become a true passion. Plants calm me, soothe me and invigorate me to learn about them and understand them.

So how did houseplants help me discover self care? 

In my previous blog post I explored two of the major benefits of houseplants: their ability to clean the air and remove toxins and how they improve our wellbeing. 

Since then I’ve researched more articles and discovered through numerous studies that plants offer so much more. I realised that I’ve experienced all the benefits houseplants have to offer and that's why I keep coming back for more! So let me break down how caring for my plants taught me to care for myself. 

Tending for plants helps us tend to ourselves

Plants help me remain calm and stay focused, improving my concentration and memory. I keep plants in every room of my house. This alleviates stress, anxiety and helps me keep a tidy space so I can always access and enjoy my plants. When caring for my plants I am focused on the task and my mind is calm as I go through the motions of checking and watering. I am not bothered with other things in my mind. 

Plants make people happy 

Happiness from plants can come in many different ways. I enjoy looking at plants, buying plants, potting plants, caring for plants, learning about plants, propagating plants and most of all, watching plants grow.

Did you know? Plants used in schools have proven to help children focus and learn, and plants in offices are found to increase productivity and overall happiness at work.

Speaking of routine, plants love it too! Once a week on a Sunday I ensure to check all my plants for water, and water them if required. I look for bugs, signs of stress and new growth and deal with any nasties I find. When I have a routine with my plants they are happier and well cared for, which reminds me to stick to my other routines so I’m happy and well cared for too. Doing this on a Sunday helps me set myself up for a great week, when my plants are tidy, my house is tidy, and I’m ready to start the week.

Plants help us heal 

Spending time with plants is therapeutic. I am constantly surrounded by greenery and I know I’m a healthier person because of it. I feel less anxious, have not had a panic attack, and can better manage my mood and stress. Living and working with plants has been the best medicine I could ask for. 

Did you know? Horticultural therapy is a well respected field that has been adopted by hospitals, and various health and wellness institutions worldwide. Therapy gardens have been used to assist people with sense impairment, learning difficulties, mental illness and those recovering from trauma and experiencing memory loss.

Plants also have many valuable medicinal properties including two of my favourites Aloe Vera and Lavender.

Caring for my plants reminds me to take it slow, have a break and do things for myself. As my plants grow and change I’m reminded to check in with myself too. As the seasons change I am aware and in the moment, caring for plants helps me stay present. 

My plant passion has lead me on an amazing journey of healing and self discovery. After finding joy in caring for plants, I decided to work in the field and soon I will be providing regular houseplant workshops to the public to encourage others to start their own journey into healthy living with plants.

What have plants taught you?

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About the Author Rachel Okell

A self confessed plant nerd, Rachel loves indoor plants, tropical plants and learning about new plants. Rachel is currently working as a Horticulturist helping people solve problems, pick plants & plan gardens. The best part of her job is being surrounded by plants all day! Rachel has a deep appreciation for all things green & hopes to share her knowledge and passion to help people learn about plants.

  • Good morning I love houseplants and i have a small garden.
    I live in zone 10 and I wish to learn more about plants please?
    Which plants I choose for inside my greenhouse in winter a d fotr outside please and how to care for them.
    Thank you for your attention

    • Hi Anvela, thanks for your comment. There are lots of factors to consider when choosing plants for your greenhouse, your garden or your home. It’s difficult for me to advise you specifically based on the small amount of information you have provided as I need to understand the light available, the microclimates in the garden, information about the area you live and much more details. I would recommend looking through my blog for some information that I have shared and booking in a garden consult, I offer these locally on the Central Coast NSW but I’m guessing that is not where you are located. I hope this helps and all the best with your gardening adventures.

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